fact file on campus relationships.

When i was young, I mean first year my, lecturer who was very vital in orienting me and many others toward campus life told us that that after four years of campus one would not only graduate with academic accolades but many other things as well, including 4 years of in campus dating, the four year divorce and the hardening of the exoskeleton for survival and definitely a bigger absorptive and retention capacity for alcohol.

Now i am  four years the wiser and i know what she meant clearly, I mean after being a passive observer to events i have seen good things happen to bad people, bad things happening to good people, ( this is very, very common) and things happening to people irrespective of whether they are good or bad.

But of all things  i have seen non is more perplexing than the campus relationships, i mean this calls real scholastic and academic research, a taxonomy of campus relations shows that there are very many types of relationships. from a guys perspective this blog is going to be gender insensitive as this is information i collect over a tusker or two or meakins gin depending on the economic situation.
i) there is the serious relationship, the i wonna marry you after we graduate relationship. id say this accounts fro less than 10% of all campus relationship. the level of commitment and dedication in this kind of relationship scares people off.
 ii) the we love each other but done with each other on graduation day relationship. now this is quite prevalent probably the dynamics of tribe and what not influence this kind of relationship. give or take may be 25% of all campus relationships are of this nature.
iii) we love each but not that much any one is allowed to cheat relationship. in this kind of relationship the bond is not so big, mainly because such relationships are for the superficial reasons of convenience.  these are the relationships probably responsible for violent wrestling in campus.
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the other types of relationships can not aptly be defined as relationships as they are too light to classify, they include the hit and run flings, the hit as you run and hit while you are running flings. have fun add other appropriate ones.
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